Jalisco Mexican Restaurant

I have been going to this restaurant since 1998. It has been my favorite Mexican restaurant in Alabama. You would think the staff would call me by name as much as I've eaten there, but they are not personable to me. The owner flirts with my husband whenever he goes with me and she is there. My birthday was 2 days ago. I ate there three times this week. Nov 28th, 29th which is my birthday and tonight. I was the only person on that side of the dining room on my birthday. This was a Tuesday afternoon around 3 pm. So they were NOT busy at all. I kept waiting and watching for my server because I wanted to ask him if they do something for birthdays...like a free desert. I think they have in the past. Finally, now I'm having to leave because I have to be somewhere so I get up to look for my server and he enters the dining room from the other end. He is always so fast at my table, I hardly get a word out when I need to tell him something. I was able to get his attention tonight to ask about the free desert for birthdays. They refused because my birthday was two days ago. I know I have to forgive but I don't have to go back to do business with a place that doesn't really appreciate my business.